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UnFictional

Weddings and Unweddings

Does a breakup have to be full of aimless despair and lonely self pity? Why not mark the occasion with a ceremony and invite your friends? This is the story of one couple that did just that.

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    By Rachel Simone James • Jul 9, 2013 • 28m Listen

    First... whenever Sharon needed a model for the perfect couple, she looked to her friends Claire and Finbloom. They seemed to be destined to live a happy life together, and Sharon was already slated to officiate their wedding. Then came the shocking news that Claire and Finbloom had actually broken up! But unlike most breakups that go down in a cloud of hostility and depression, Claire and Finboom devised a breakup ceremony... an "unwedding." Sharon would officiate that instead. A small group of friends met in a park and hummed and hugged, burned text messages, and thought of their own past breakups.

    Claire, Sharon and Finbloom

    Unwedding guests

    Breaking up doesn't have to be serious

    Produced by Sharon Mashihi and Rachel Simone James. Photos: Rijard Bergeron

    Then... on June 26 the Supreme Court struck down a key provision of the Defense of Marriage Act, opening the doors for gay couples to get married in California and elsewhere. The first person Cameron Esposito spoke to was her girlfriend, the next one was her dad. Her father is an emotional guy who loves to sing and adores his family, but in the past he had been troubled by Cameron's sexuality. She wonders what this new opportunity is going to mean for her and her family.

    Cameron Esposito

    Photo: Lenny Gilmore

    Produced by Nick White

    Just for Laughs Chicago, SXSW, the Aspen Rooftop and Bridgetown Comedy Festivals, on LOGO and NPR's Bullseye. She hosts two weekly podcasts, Wham Bam Pow and Put Your Hands Together, recorded live every Tuesday night at the UCB theater.

    Banner image: Unwedding guests hug it out. Photo: Rijard Bergeron

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      Rachel Simone James

      Independent Producer

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