Asma Khan brings uncomplicated Indian food to home kitchens

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Asma Khan’s recipe for foolproof shrimp biryani is cataloged in a section of her book dubbed “Cooking for Your Future In-Laws.” Photo by Laura Edwards.

Indian born, British chef Asma Khan has been heralded for her commitment to training  immigrant women who form the backbone of her all-female kitchen at Darjeeling Express. ‘We serve the simple food of the women who are in their graves,’ salutes Asma Khan. “We’re trying to explain the narrative of women and their roles, inbeing the custodian of recipes, of nourishing generations of people.” She pays homage to the first woman in her life in her latest  cookbook “Ammu: Indian Home Cooking to Nourish Your Soul,” 

Khan her mother’s upbringing in India prior to the revolution. Coming from a conservative family with a traditional upbringing, she didn’t go to college and became a grandmother by the time she was 32 years old. The chef recalls the poetry of monsoon season and her similar beginnings to her mother of starting a catering business from home.

Khan says that television has intimidated home cooks about making Indian food. The first two chapters of her book are her childhood favorites and recipes she made as she learned to cook. 

This interview has been edited for length and clarity. 

KCRW: Talk to us a little about your mom, for context give us what year she was born.

Asma Khan: She was born in 1943, before India got independent, and she saw the country transforming. But for her her life remained pretty traditional. She was in a very conservative family, she never went to college. She got married very young. She had  my sister when she was 18. And she was a grandmother at 32. That’s how you know things have happened for generations in my family.

Tell us about your dad.

My dad is a very interesting character. He is a passionate reader of poetry and very into his philosophy. He’s an engineer by training, very different from my mother, from a very different region of India – a wheat-growing region. He still finds looking at a fish eye really terrifying because that's a landlocked area where he grew up in very simple food days. But he’s deeply spiritual, and makes it fun to talk to him, he’s a real character. I think my real education has been having conversations with my father.

The images in this book are absolutely beautiful, not just objectively beautiful to the eye like beautifully photographed.They're chosen  with memory and emotion in mind. You talk about the jewelry box that your mother gave you when you left the house to marry. You say that this latest cookbook is like that jewelry box. How so?

It was all this imagery that came out in the darkness of pandemic and lockdown. I had this jewelry box in front of me, and it's then when I realized that we are given this very physical gift of ancestral vintage jewelry. In my family, I come from a royal family, so for us some of the jewelry is very old and very, very precious. It's given to us this box as a goodbye gift to you as you leave the doorstep of your house. But then I realized that actually what I'm taking away is the food memories, are the aromas of my kitchen, the sound of my mother, cooking and laughing the songs that you were listening to. And all those gatherings of the clan to celebrate weddings, all those recipes are there in my book. And that box, which had the jewelry, is actually a box full of recipes.


Khan recalls memories of monsoon season in India and the sweet smell of the earth during the rains, which meant pakoras and hot tea at the table. Photo by Urszula Soltys.

You talk a lot about the monsoon season. Why do you associate so much childhood comfort food with monsoons?

You need to experience the monsoon in Bengal – the rain is relentless. But that comes after months of parched heat, where the ground is cracked up, and everything is dry, bone dry. So when the rains come, the first monsoons, my father would grab us all, my mother shrieking, and he used to take us out to the stand and watch the rain, and get soaked through and through. That fragrance of the earth – there is no flower, there's no perfume, there's nothing that can describe that sweet smell of the earth, when it starts getting soaked. Then, all the birds are dancing. In my father's home, when it rained, the peacocks would come out and stand under the trees and dance. That kind of joy when you feel the earth taking a deep breath. It's a real emotion.


Give us a dish that just brings you back to those memories.

The pakoras – Onion fritters – are very simple potato balls dipped in chickpea flour. Because also with monsoons came lack of food in the house. The bazaars closed, so then you suddenly were left on a diet of whatever grains you had in the house and eggs – because the person who sold the eggs cycled through with the floods. We started off with having one egg each. As the monsoon got worse, and we got trapped into the house, we were down to half an egg each. You felt like you had some huge adventure.

Your family had a family cook. What was your mother's role in the kitchen? Tell us a bit about her catering business and how she started that?

She never went to college. No one in the family, no female in the family ever worked. She was the first entrepreneur in the family, and she decided to do catering. She began this catering business in a very small way. Very kind of in an organic way. Incredible that reminded me of how I started. I started my house. She started in the house. And she slowly built up her business – she put a little outside kitchen and she expanded, and she became one of the best known caterers in Calcutta. And what was so unique about her – she would personally serve and she never left till everyone had eaten. And I remember going back at three in the morning sitting on top of an empty biryani pot rack, which is full of bones that she'd got for the street dogs, coming in at three in the morning. Because the dogs knew bones were coming they were chasing all the neighbors and turning the lights on. She was just in a silk sari wearing her diamond vintage jewelry. She’d just jump off this truck and just walk into the house. No one would gossip about her, they just watched and all.

For many people who have never cooked Indian food at home. Your recipes might seem like a project, even if they're quite simple. What kind of advice can you give?

Please do not get intimidated because a lot of television where you see people cooking Indian food is unnecessarily complicated. The good thing about this book is the first two chapters: One of them is my childhood dishes. And the second one is a dish I first cooked when I was learning how to cook. I learned to cook this way. I didn't go to culinary school. I wasn't a sous chef. I didn't pick up cooking from watching master chef for anything else. I literally stood in the kitchen and watched how to cook. So I go through the steps,and I think if you look at a recipe and read it, then it's your recipe. You tweak it, you turn it to your taste buds to what you have in your house. This recipe is no longer mine. It is yours.

I love that in the front of the book, you have all kinds of recipe suggestions depending upon what our needs might be. And I have to say that my favorite category is cooking for your future in-laws.

Those are really foolproof. They look spectacular, but they're actually not that difficult to make. You don't need to tell them how easy it was. They’re going to think you’re so smart. 

Pick a future in-law recipe and tell us about it.

All the biryanis are actually very easy. Especially the prawn biryani because it just looks so spectacular. It is so, so easy. My kids make it. So it's these kinds of dishes which are really easy. Also all the kebab dishes are easy – but you marinate and you cook last-minute, it looks spectacular. And then all the aroma and the drama, you need all of that when you're trying to impress people, you need bang for your buck. So you've got to have some theater, some drama, but it should be something that was so easy for you. So that is also very important, which is why I also picked recipes in categories like this, so that your kitchen doesn't look like a bomb site. You look great. You don't look like you're sweaty and you're panting. Everything's in control. And that's it. They're going to be so impressed by you.

For those of us who aren't so familiar with the way that you have championed immigrant women. Can you talk about the restaurant model that you created and why?

My restaurant is mid-level fine dining. The only female-owned, all-female Indian restaurant in the world. There is no restaurant like this even in India. Incredibly in every home you go to in South Asia, India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Afghanistan, Sri Lanka, you will find the matriarch is in charge of cooking or of ordering the food and making sure everyone is fed. In every restaurant you go to in the East or in the West. That is mid-level. You know, fine dining is expensive. They're all men who trained to cook, not in the kitchens of their mothers. They trained to cook in culinary school. Everyone's CV is identical. They trained to be professional chefs. Patriarchy runs deep in our culture. You would never find a boy in a kitchen. They would always be shooed out. It was only the girls who were in the kitchen. In my culture, women eat last, girls eat least. Our food is very futile. We have this idea of hot rice being served to the men. 

The problem with having been an agrarian society – this you will see in Colombia in Mexico – the women serve the men. The men do not cook the food. So this is a problem. And I wanted to see if we could do it if we could be that unusual restaurant where women cooked the food of their ancestors, uncomplicated food. We didn't put edible flying nitrogen on it. We didn't try to make our food look French. We didn't try to make anything look different. We serve the simple food of the women who are in their graves, as a salaam and a salute to the women who never celebrated. This is a battle cry. This is not a restaurant. This is a political movement. We're trying to explain the narrative of women and their roles in being the custodian of recipes of nourishing generations of people. I have three grandmother's now working. They fed them and they have life experience. They don't have a certificate to show that they're chefs.


Chef Asma Khan compares her cookbook “Ammu” to the jewelry box given to her when she left home to marry. “What I realized I was taking away were the aromas of the kitchen, the sounds of my mother cooking and laughing, the songs she would listen to me.” Photo courtesy of Interlink Publishing Group.

Credits

Guest:

  • Asma Khan - Chef; restaurateur; cookbook author

Host:

Evan Kleiman