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    Good Food

    Don't throw shade on my ngau lam

    Last summer, Ruth Tam wrote a powerful essay for the Washington Post in which she revealed how a high school classmate made fun of her home because it "smelled of Chinese grossness."

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    By Evan Kleiman • Oct 14, 2016 • 1 min read

    Last summer, Ruth Tam wrote a powerful essay for the Washington Post in which she revealed how a high school classmate made fun of her home because it "smelled of Chinese grossness." Her love for her family's food was overpowered by her desire to fit in, she writes, "so I minimized Chinese food's role in my life and learned to make pasta instead. Little did I know that Americans would come to embrace the dishes and cooking styles that once mortified me." Tam, a writer and public radio producer from Chicago who now lives in Washington, DC, joins us to discuss food shaming and the reaction she's gotten to her piece since it was published.

    Music: "All You Gotta Do Is Fall In Love" and "Grigopela"

    The full episode

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    Mr. Fries Man, ethnic food shaming, Native American cuisine
    1. 0:30Sunchokes, squash and pumpkins at the market
    2. 8:27Dining with leaders, rebels, heroes and outlaws
    3. 17:50Why isn't Native American cuisine more hip?
    4. 26:03Don't throw shade on my ngau lamYou’re reading this
    5. 39:44Mr. Fries Man goes viral
    6. 51:04Jonathan Gold dines at Gus's Fried Chicken
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      Evan Kleiman

      host 'Good Food'

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      Laryl Garcia

      Senior Director, Good Food

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      Abbie Fentress Swanson

      Independent reporter and producer

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      Camellia Tse

      Producer, Good Food

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    The full episode

    4 of 6
    Mr. Fries Man, ethnic food shaming, Native American cuisine
    1. 0:30Sunchokes, squash and pumpkins at the market
    2. 8:27Dining with leaders, rebels, heroes and outlaws
    3. 17:50Why isn't Native American cuisine more hip?
    4. 26:03Don't throw shade on my ngau lamYou’re reading this
    5. 39:44Mr. Fries Man goes viral
    6. 51:04Jonathan Gold dines at Gus's Fried Chicken
    Back to Good Food